How often do you worry about “being someone” who’s confident?
We’re conditioned by society and media to believe that there is a certain “image” of a confident person. Think of a confident person. Do it right now. What do they look like? The image that you’re thinking of is one that was put in place by the media. That’s exactly why a lot of people spend time trying to become a “confident person” like they see in the media. That’s not how to be confident.
What you actually need to do is be confident in yourself.
You shouldn’t spend time trying to be someone else. You’re your own person!
If you are 100% sure who you are and you fully accept and are comfortable with who you are, then you will be confident. That’s all you need to do. It doesn’t matter how you dress, what you look like, what TV shows you like, what your hobbies are, etc. You can still be 100% confident in who you are. That’s all you need to do.